"I haven't sent you my resume yet, but I was hoping to introduce myself to you and your compay..."
"My son/daughter/friend is looking for a job and I was hoping that you might have something for him/her"
"I called to see what you can do for me..."
"I was in the neighborhood and thought I would stop by and show you my resume..."
These are all phrases that make hiring managers and recruiters (sometimes even receptionists!) cringe in their seats. They're the social equivalent to being cornered by someone at a party whom you've never met, yet insists on making you their new best friend, whether you like it or not!
What makes these attempts at introductions NOT OK? Well, there are a few reasons why:
1) It takes quite a bit of nerve to contact a hiring manager before sending your resume and expect him/her to sit and listen to your "elevator pitch". The people who make hiring decisions like to have a resume to refer to while on the phone/in-person with a candidate! Many of us are visual learners and aren't able to fully capture a person's skill set via storytelling.
2) It also takes some nerve to expect anyone to spend 10-20 minutes of unscheduled time on the phone with you! Anyone put in charge of filling open positions (or answering the phone for the department that fills positions) is probably pretty busy and can't always drop what they're doing to speak with an interested candidate at length!
3) Have you ever seen the episode of Everybody Loves Raymond, where Robert is trying to get a job with the FBI and Marie faxes a note to the hiring manager, telling them how wonderful her son is? Yeah, it was funny on TV, but not so funny in real-life.
4) Whether or not it's a candidate's intention, straight up asking,"What can you do for me?" (or anything equivalent) to a hiring professional comes off incredibly rude and selfish. Generally speaking, it's good to wait and see what the hiring professional has to say before assuming s/he is going to do anything for you!
5) Unless it's someone coming by to take you to lunch or a long-lost friend drops in to say, "Hi", I don't know anyone who's a big fan of the "drop ins" at the office. The salespeople who drop by and try to get your office managers to switch vendors are annoying, right? Well, so are job seekers who stop by unannounced and expect to meet with a recruiter or HR manager. It's one thing to drop off a resume on your way to an appointment- but to expect a meeting with someone in charge of hiring is just ridiculous!
Whare are some better ways to introduce yourself and get your "foot in the door"?
1) Send your resume first, then follow up with a phone call. Give it a few business days, then call and ask for Person X. Say politely, "I saw that you had a posting for (fill in the blank). I sent in my resume on (date) and wanted to be sure you received." OR "Bob Jones from XYZ Company referred me to you, so I sent in my resume the other day. Did you receive it?"
2) Always ask if the person you are contacting has time to talk. If not, ask if there's a better time to call back OR schedule a time to discuss your resume, skills and qualifications. On the same note, recruiters should do the same for you when following-up on your resume!
3) Even if your mom or your best freind is your biggest fan, do your best to prevent them from calling hiring managers or staffing agencies on your behalf. If they want to do some initial research for you (i.e., collecing names and numbers of agencies, researching companies, printing out job postings)- great. But it should be a candidate's responsibility to reach out to these places on his/her own.
4) Although you are selling yourself to a hiring manager or recruiter, try to stay away from overusing the words "me" and "I". Try to figure out ways that you can communicate what you bring to the table, rather than just asking questions about what a company can do for you.
5) Refrain from "dropping in" on anyone unannouced (unless you're prepared to treat him/her to lunch!). Most likely, you aren't going to get to sit down with anyone who makes hiring decisions and you've now wasted your time and gas money. In the long run, it pays off to be patient- if a recruiter is interested in your resume, s/he will call you! If not, you need to move on.
Although this may seem like "common sense" to the average person, many job seekers are getting frustrated and acting out in strange ways. Rather than stand out in a bad way, we are hoping that the advice above will help candidates learn the basic social graces that go along with looking for a job! Hiring managers and recruiters are very much appreciative of candidates who follow the rules and behave like understanding, normal humans!